I’m going to address something that I feel needs to be talked about, why women don’t orgasm. I know, it’s the hush hush word that people don’t like to talk about, but I think it’s important to know the real story here.
If you think about it, and you probably haven’t, did you ever wonder why women seem to orgasm more readily while masturbating than with a partner? It’s because we know our own bodies. We know where to touch, and also how to touch ourselves in order for that wonderful flash bang sensation to happen.
One of the key mistakes guys make in the bedroom is that they think they know everything there is to know about sex, they don’t. Many times, guys get their sexual experience from books, other guys, and or porn films. Of course we all know how true to life they are right? Don’t assume, ask us, we know what feels good to our own bodies and unless we’re like ostriches and stick our heads in the sand, we’ll tell you.
Many times even when the guy is experienced, he still is unable to make his partner orgasm. The reason being of course is: News flash, we are all different. Ask us, we’ll tell you how fast to go and where to touch that sends us over the moon. There is nothing more frustrating than a Wham Bam thank you mam approach, be gentle.
Another thing that is very important to us is a term that is sometimes unheard of or forgotten about while making love…foreplay. We like it, so do it. Sure there are times when we just want you to enter us and “do your thing” so we can finish watching the tonight show, but those are few and far between. Kiss us with passion; hold your hands on our faces and slowly at first caress our lips, and then, stick your tongue down our throats and it will be OK.